POST 26 (9-April-2013)

HALAL OR HARAM RELATIONSHIP

Media educates, informs, persuades and entertains us but it gives negative impact on our society. Now, you all are thinking that how media is giving negative impact??? Let me tell you media is increasing the bad things through different types of shows, dramas and films. The media person give us lame excuses that, “we are broadcasting those things which public wants to see” or “what we are broadcasting, is the part of our society.”

Media advances the vulgar fashion, dancing, singing and how you can make relationships in young age. Always remember, Satan is every where to make our Emaan weak and always tries to keep us away from Allah.

When we look around our selves we see many youngsters involved in relationships. Youngsters should know that there is absence of purity and respect in these relations. This is because Allah has considered this as Haram.

As Muslims, we should know that the relationship between male and female other than Nikkah is Haram. Nikkah makes the relation pure and strong. After Nikkah, Allah Himself puts love and respect in the heart for each other.

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said,” When a husband and wife look at each other with love, Allah looks both of them with mercy.”[sahih bukhari 6:19 trimidhi].

Husband and wife should respect each other. Allah has assigned duties for them towards each other.  Allah Subhanawa Ta'la said in the holy Quran; “And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them. And Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise.”
[The Holy Quran, Surah Al-Baqarah 2:228]